Anal Plugs

For both women and men with vaginas or penises, anal plugs can offer immense pleasure. Experiment with lubricated fingers first to get comfortable and then insert a firmly-seated butt plug, starting small and moving up in size as your comfort level increases.

They can be used on their own, to warm up for anal sex, or in combination with penetrative sex or clitoral stimulation. They can even help create intense blended orgasms by stimulating multiple erogenous zones at once.

Material

The material an anal plug is made from will affect its feel and how you clean it. Most of these toys are made of silicone, a flexible body-safe option that comes in a variety of colors and patterns. Glass and metal are also available for a more substantial, weightier feel that some people prefer for anal play. Both can be sterilized, but are usually more expensive than silicone.

While anal plugs can be used on their own, many people use them with other erogenous zones for increased stimulation. They can be worn while having penetrative sex, in combination with clitoral stimulation, or even while masturbating. This kind of anal play can narrow the vagina, which can intensify stimulation for both partners and can lead to intense blended orgasms that occur when stimulating more than one erogenous zone simultaneously.

Some anal plugs have a tapered base that makes them more comfortable to wear while sitting, standing, or walking. Others have a wide base that can be more difficult to wear. Regardless of the type you choose, remember that anal plugs can squick, so be careful not to overdo it when playing with them. It’s also a good idea to engage in anal play several hours after you have a bowel movement, and not just before.

Shape

The shape of an anal plug can affect the way it feels. Some shapes can anal plug feel a little different than others, and some can give you unique pleasure experiences. For example, some sex plugs have a tapered tip for easy insertion and a flared base that sits comfortably in the anal canal. These can be great toys for beginners and those looking to explore anal play at their own pace.

Some anal plugs also have a thin neck. This design can help you train yourself to take a bigger toy by giving your internal sphincter the opportunity to relax before pushing out the bulb. A thick neck, on the other hand, can be harder to insert and may cause you to forget that you’re plugged. This is especially true during orgasms, as orgasms can relax your pelvic floor and make removing the plug easier.

Anal plugs can be used on their own or with other sex toys. Many people find that plugs are especially pleasurable when combined with clitoral stimulation. They can even be used during penetrative sex with a partner or while masturbating. The combination of these sensations can lead to intense blended orgasms.

Size

If you’re new to anal plugs, it’s a good idea to start small. A tiny fanny plug, like the PinkCherry Vibrating Anal Plug or Bellesa’s Anal Training Kit, is a great way to get comfortable with the feeling of something in your tush and will give you a taste for how different a sensation it can be. You can then move up to a more robust anal plug when you’re ready.

Most anal plugs are shorter than dildos and have a diameter that’s less than 3 inches. This size is perfect for beginners, and it’s usually easy to slip them in and out of the body. They’re also easy to use for prostate stimulation and for anal play with a partner or while masturbating alone.

Many butt plugs are a little larger than the smallest models and offer more girth, but you can still slide them in easily. The Lovehoney Butt Tingler, for instance, is a favorite among anal plug fans thanks to its not-too-large size and intense vibrations. It has a tapered base that’s great for slipping into the sphincter and a bit of heft that makes it feel satisfying in the fanny (plus ample lubrication). Another great option is the Lovense Hush 2 Anal Plug, which connects to the Lovense app via Bluetooth so you can control the toy from anywhere—even across the world or from your dinner table.

Lubrication

Anal plugs are often made of a material such as glass, metal, or silicone. They are available in a variety of shapes and sizes. Some are designed to be inserted and worn outside of the anus while others are designed for internal use only. Regardless of the type of anal plug you choose, it is important to use it with lubrication.

It is best to use a water-based lubricant with anal plugs. Oil-based lubes can break down the materials in the plug, making it more prone to tearing and breaking. Water-based lubes are also better for long-term wear. Silicone lubes can be used with some types of plugs, but you should always read the manufacturer’s instructions.

Once you have the right lubrication, it is time to put the tongue licking vibrator plug in! To begin, position yourself in a comfortable position and focus on relaxing your butt muscles and sphincter. Once you feel ready, gently push the plug into the anal canal. If the toy feels uncomfortable, try a different size, use more lube, or try from a different angle.

If you’re feeling adventurous, some anal plugs can be paired with a vibrating toy for extra stimulation. However, it’s important to keep your anal and vaginal toys separate to avoid cross-contamination. Putting a sex toy that has been in the anus into your vagina can cause yeast and bacteria infections, so it is important to keep these two areas as clean as possible.