Clito-Stimulating Clito-Vibrating Clito Massager
Your clitoris is more than the pea-shaped button you can feel outside of your vulva—it’s a complex bundle of nerves that’s super sensitive to pleasure. Thankfully, technology has come up with clever ways to stimulate this remarkable organ.
Clitoral massagers use vibration, pulsations and suction to awaken thousands of nerve endings, triggering sensations that can be orgasmic. Here are some of our favorites.
Suction Devices
When used in tandem with the right clitoral stimulator, suction toys can unlock mind-blowing sensations that far surpass what you’ll experience with manual stimulation. By combining clitoral stimulation with vibration and pulsations, these devices awaken thousands of nerve endings to deliver orgasms that will leave you wanting more.
The key to getting the most intense clitoral stimulation is to be in the right headspace for it. According to pelvic medicine specialist Michael Ingber, it’s best to use a pump-style clitoral suction toy solo before trying it with a partner, since you can control the amount of suction yourself (and decrease it if you find that you are getting overstimulated).
He recommends using the toy while thinking about a sexy fantasy, fantasizing about a lover or watching porn, and he says it helps to have some water-based lube on hand to ease your way into the pleasure zone. Once you’re ready to get going, a clitoral suction toy like the Empowered Smart Pleasure Idol sits sweetly on your pleasure zones and gently sucks until you’re ready for more intense action.
If you’re looking for a sex toy that also stimulates the G-spot, check out the LELO Sila or the Dame Aer. Both feature air pulse technology that sucks and strokes the whole clitoral hood in a way that mimics oral sex. Those two models also have larger mouths than some of their competitors, making them better equipped for a wide variety of anatomy.
Sonic Wave Stimulators
If you’re the type of person who needs a little extra stimulation to get you to orgasm, female masterbators then you’ll want to consider using a clitoral vibrator. These are sex toys that feature a small opening in the nozzle that hugs your clitoral hood and creates suction as it’s activated by the vibrations.
These vibes come in a variety of styles. Some are shaped like a bullet and use a nozzle that inserts into your junk, while others have a curved shaft and a mouth that opens to envelop the clitoral hood. Either way, they all deliver intense yet gentle clitoral sensations and are great for beginners.
If you don’t feel comfortable with a clitoral vibe that directly touches your clitoris, a sonic wave stimulator can help. The nozzle in these vibes doesn’t touch the clit, but the sound waves vibrate around it Women’s Masters Manufacturers to stimulate your clitoris and labia. These vibes are also very quiet and don’t make a mess.
If you’re looking for a clitoral stimulator that’s medical-grade and lusciously smooth, try the ZALO Rose Rabbit Vibrator*. This pretty bb provides dual stimulation with its clitoral suction and internal vibrations, and it even has a warming function. Just be sure to avoid vibes made from rubber, PU or any other porous material, as they can trap bacteria and smell bad.
App-Controlled Stimulators
There’s a big range of clitoral, prostate and butt plug vibrators, cock rings and love eggs that can be controlled by an app. The Lovehoney website filters these by brand and then app control, making it easy to find what’s right for you. The Hitachi Magic Wand is a great example of this. It’s a little too large to be considered discreet but it spreads its sonic waves out over your whole clitoris and is also rated by intimacy therapists as one of the best for penetration play.
Another clitoral vibrator to consider is the LELO Sila and Dame Aer, both of which feature larger openings than their Sona models, making them more suitable for people with bigger genitals or those with a bit of T-dick growth action going on. The nozzles have a 20mm diameter and a 14mm gap, which means you can fit a variety of anatomy in there.
Another option is the sexy Satisfyer Curvy 3+, which boasts pulsing air technology and vibration functions that can be mixed or matched to your pleasure preferences. Its mouth completely surrounds your clitoral ridge and the flexible wings offer touch-free clitoral stimulation, while the custom app allows you to explore a library of intensities and patterns with a boo. It’s perfect for couples who want to take things up a gear in their long-distance phone sex sessions, too.
Wireless Stimulators
With vibrations that can go from mild to ahhh-mazing, this cute little vibe has the right stuff for orgasms of all kinds. It’s easy to get a nice, smooth buzz going with this toy, which can also be used for vibration during oral play and for vaginal stimulation, too. The best part is that it’s totally safe to use with just about anything, from latex, silicone, and jelly lubes to sexy fingerplay and Kegel balls.
This sleek metal vibe from Dame—a brand that’s well-known for its thoughtful clit-stim toys, like the Eva II and the Fin—has a powerful clitoral massager built into a sturdy, thick shaft. Its curved design helps it hit the G-spot, and its velvety medical-grade silicone is so soft that you’ll want to hold on to it.
This toy is a hands-free clit stimulator that fits over the hood of the clitoris and attaches gently using suction. It can be used against other erogenous zones, too, including the labia and G-spot. It’s a great option for people who might be new to clitoral stimulation, or those who don’t want a toy they can touch. This vibe comes with two easy-to-swap heads in different sizes, so it’s suitable for most users. (Learn more about this toy and check pricing*.)
